Why does it seem like there is an overflow of negativity now a days? I just know that good people still exist and good things are happening around us everyday. But why are we are missing it? Why have we lost our focus on the good in things, and instead, are driven by “chisme,”. Why are we giving more attention to the ugly stuff than to the things that are really making a difference in our world?
With the influence of social media and the bombardment of negativity, we as a society have changed; we have become more outspoken, direct, and outright rude at times. On social media, people leave negative comments on someone’s page about their “crooked nose,” “their weight,” or “their broken Spanish”—just dumb stuff! I understand if you want to express your opinion about something that you’re passionate about, but there is no need to be so negative. I’m tired of all this negativity! And I’m talking to myself!
With that in mind, I did some real soul searching and was thinking about ways that I could challenge myself, the Abuela’s Kitchen crew, and all of you, to think, act, and respond positively! We can all make a difference in the lives of those around us, one person at a time, beginning in our home and flowing out into our communities. In my reading time this morning, I read the following passage, it says:
“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but harsh word stirs up anger. Knowledge flows like spring water from the wise; fools are leaky faucets, dripping nonsense.”
As I read that I thought, “I want to be like spring water and not a leaky faucet.” Don’t you? Those darn leaky faucets don’t let me sleep. LOL!
In other words, in order to be like “Spring Water” we have to put into action our positive thoughts and words. So for the month of November, I am kicking off what I’m calling “Comida Del Corazon.” I will be picking two families who may need a little love and encouragement—and will be preparing a nice surprise for them. Sound interesting yet? Well, this is where you can also be like the “Spring Water,” by nominating a family who you think is in need of some love, encouragement, positivity, and a meal from the heart (Comida del Corazon).
The special person or family will receive a meal from us (the Abuela’s Kitchen crew), we will eat together or just hang out and share stories of life as we enjoy each other’s company.
Starting today, think of that special person or family who could use some cheering up and tell me why you nominate them to receive una Comida Del Corazon. Deadline for all nominations is October 21, 2016.
I’ll be looking forward to reading all of your nominations! Thank you guys for your love and support! Spread positivity not negativity, even with a warm cooked meal. J ❤
Two winners will be picked by the Abuela’s Kitchen crew by October 28, 2016.
How to enter:
There are two ways to enter.
- Submit your nomination via our Facebook page (publicly). OR
- Email your nomination to me at abuelaskitchentortillas@yahoo.com
Rules:
- Nominee must live within the Southern California region.
- You must submit the city and zip code of where the nominee lives.
- You give us permission to post your entry along with pictures, if included.
- You give us permission to announce the nominee’s location.
** Comida del Corazon meal will be for family of 5 and has no monetary value.

¿Por qué parece que hay un exceso de la negatividad hoy en día? Sé que todavía existen personas buenas y cosas buenas están ocurriendo a nuestro alrededor todos los días. Pero ¿por qué no lo notamos? ¿Por qué hemos perdido nuestro enfoque en lo bueno de las cosas, y en su lugar, somos impulsados por “el chisme”? ¿Por qué estamos prestando más atención a las cosas feas que a las cosas que realmente están haciendo una diferencia en nuestro mundo?
Con la influencia de los medios sociales y el bombardeo de negatividad, como sociedad hemos cambiado; hemos llegado a ser más francos, directos y simplemente groseros a veces. En las redes sociales, las personas dejan comentarios negativos en las páginas de alguien acerca de su “nariz torcida,” “su peso” o “su español mocho”- ¡sólo cosas tontas! Yo entiendo que queremos expresar nuestra opinión sobre algo que nos apasiona, pero no hay necesidad de ser tan negativo. ¡Estoy cansada de toda esta negatividad! ¡Y me estoy hablando a mí misma!
Con esto en mente, he estado pensando en maneras que podía desafiarme a mí misma, al personal de Abuela’s Kitchen, y a todos ustedes, ¡a pensar, actuar y responder de manera positiva! Todos podemos hacer una diferencia en las vidas de los que nos rodean, una persona a la vez, empezando en nuestra casa y que fluya hacia nuestras comunidades. En mi tiempo de lectura de esta mañana, leí el siguiente pasaje que dice:
“La blanda respuesta quita la ira, pero la palabra áspera hace subir el furor. El conocimiento fluye como agua de manantial de los sabios; tontos son los grifos que gotean, goteando sin sentido “.
Cuando lo leí que pensé, “yo quiero ser como agua de manantial y no un grifo que gotea.” ¿Y tú? Esos grifos que gotean no me dejan dormir. LOL!
En otras palabras, para ser como “Agua de manantial” hay que poner en acción nuestros pensamientos y palabras en una manera positiva. Así que, para el mes de Noviembre, estoy dando inicio a lo que estoy llamando “Comida Del Corazón.” Voy a escoger dos familias que necesitan un poco de amor y aliento, y prepararemos una sorpresa agradable para ellos. ¿Suena interesante? Bueno, aquí es donde también ustedes pueden ser como el “agua de manantial”, nombre a una familia que piense que está necesitada de un poco de amor, ánimo, positividad y una comida del corazón.
La persona o familia especial recibirán una comida de parte de nosotros (el personal de Abuela’s Kitchen), comeremos juntos o simplemente pasaremos el rato y compartiremos historias de la vida y disfrutaremos de la compañía mutua.
A partir de hoy, piense en esa persona especial o familia que podría utilizar un poco de ánimo y díganos porqué los nombra para recibir Una Comida Del Corazón. La fecha límite para todas las nominaciones es el 21 de Octubre del 2016.
¡Voy a estar al tanto todas sus nominaciones! ¡Gracias a todos por su amor y apoyo! Hay que difundir positividad no negatividad, incluso con una comida caliente. ☺ ❤
El equipo de Abuela’s Kitchen escogerá dos ganadores para el 28 de octubre del 2016.
Cómo participar:
Hay dos maneras para participar.
1. Envíe su nominación a través de nuestra página de Facebook (públicamente). O
2. Envíe su nominación a nuestro correo electrónico abuelaskitchentortillas@yahoo.com
Reglas:
1. El candidato debe vivir dentro de la región sur de California.
2. Debe presentar la ciudad y el código postal donde vive el candidato.
3. Usted nos da permiso para publicar su nominación junto con imágenes, si se incluyen.
4. Usted nos da permiso para anunciar la ciudad del candidato.
** La Comida del Corazón será una comida para una familia de 5 y no tiene valor monetario.




We are currently having a healthy month at Abuela’s Kitchen. If you haven’t seen our last video on making your own Hummus, make sure you click on the link below.
Being Mexian American I get the best of both worlds. I get double candies, double pastries, I get a birthday and a “Dia De Mi Santo”, I get to enjoy 2 cultures and I get to celebrate Mother’s Day AND “Dia De Las Madres” every May 10th.
Politics has always been part of my life. Not that I have any politicians in the family, but my dad has always been really passionate about politics, especially Mexican politics. Although he lived in the USA since the Bracero Program, he has always kept the people of Mexico in his heart. The corrupt government has always caused him anger. Because of that, I know about El Pri, El Pan and his favorite, El PRD (Mexican political parties). I have known since I was a kid, that the people in the border towns of Mexico to the USA have fear. It’s not a recent thing. Corruption in Mexico has existed for a very long time. Along with fear, the people of Mexico have also lived in some sort of oppression in which the rich get richer and the poor stay poor (Not always the case but it’s common.).
Here is the recipe to the Chile De Arbol salsa from our Tortas Ahogadas video to spice up your life.





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We were excited about learning new things, but most importantly about eating! Peeling a Chile Relleno by scraping the skin with a plastic spoon was a real “Aha!” moment for us. We also learned how to make a quick “Capirotada.” At the end of our class, we received a certificate naming us “Chiles Rellenos and Capirotada Experts”! Ya nos podremos casar! So if you w
Pescado Primavera. Below is the recipe. Make sure you tag me and hashtag 


